Friday, June 25, 2021
FIGS: Focused, Intensive Goal Setting
Saturday, June 19, 2021
Finding Better Edges In Your Trading
Monday, June 14, 2021
How To Innovate In Your Trading
Wednesday, June 02, 2021
How We Sabotage Our Trading
One of the main topics of my reading is meditation. It turns out that there are *many* different forms of meditation, many of which are quite unlike our common conception of the Eastern practice. As I explain in the recent Forbes article, the most important function of meditation is to build focus and amplify our experience. The problem is that the great majority of people who try meditation don't pursue it long enough to achieve that amplification.
The way in which we often sabotage our trading is through our automatic, negative thought patterns. As the cognitive therapists emphasize, we typically learn negative habits of thinking, where automatic thoughts take over. These can be self-critical thoughts, repetitive thoughts of being a victim, worry thoughts, etc. What is not well appreciated is that such automatic thinking is meditation in reverse. When we focus on our negative thoughts, we internalize negativity. Ironically, we end up using our magnifying glass to accentuate the very thinking that sabotages us: in trading, and in life.
We internalize what we focus on and that shapes who we become. That can uplift us or it can sabotage us--
Further Reading:
Why We Fail To Reach Our Potential
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Friday, May 28, 2021
Three Steps To Avoid Trading On Tilt
1) Plan Your Losses - Big expectations lead to big frustrations. Every trade should be accompanied by a very specific idea of what would tell you you're wrong and how much you're willing to lose on the trade. It's when losses surprise us and become too large that they're likely to create disruptions in our mindset. Your goal should be to lose well, in the right way. Focusing only on how much you want/need to make sets up surprise and frustration.
2) Take Breaks - After large gains and large losses, it's easy for P/L to get in our heads. Always take a break after a large trade, clear your head, and assess the opportunity set with fresh eyes. It is just as important to reset after big wins as big losses. Both can lead to taking trades for the wrong reasons. Quick meditation exercises to increase calm and focus can be *very* helpful.
3) Keep Trading Size Moderate And Consistent - Too much size creates unusual P/L volatility and that leads to emotional volatility. Your goal is to be consistently profitable and then grow your size while you retain your consistency. If you *need* to be profitable, that creates undue performance pressure and emotional distraction. Drama = distraction. You want no drama in your trading.
The greatest edge of all in trading is self-awareness. Frustration happens to us all. The goal is not to trade without emotion, but to be so aware of our emotions that we know when to step back from the screens.
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Further Resources:
Three Minute Trading Coach: Taking Breaks
Three Minute Trading Coach: Taking Your Emotional Temperature
Three Minute Trading Coach: Shifting Your Trading Psychology
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