
12/22/2025 - Here is the most powerful motivation I've found for trading well: generosity. A while back, I decided to dedicate a meaningful percentage of my trading profits to support my family. The idea is that, if I trade well, I will do good by helping those I care about. The same dynamic would be present if a trader decided to dedicate a percentage of profits to a charity or social cause that they strongly supported and believed in.
Now all of a sudden there's a different motivation for trading psychology. I would never want to hurt someone or something I cared deeply about. My desire is to live generously and see others benefit from my success. I would feel much worse taking away something from a person I love than taking it away from myself. That motivation to be caring and generous pushes me to make the right decisions: take breaks when needed, manage position sizes and risk correctly, and remain patient for A+ opportunities. It also incentivizes me to take proper risk when those good opportunities arise and make the most of my trading.
Every so often, I visualize the people I hope will benefit from my work (including my trading) and feel the love for them. That motivates me to be generous and help them through my success. What otherwise could be an ego-filled set of activities now becomes an opportunity to turn doing well into doing good.
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12/21/2025 - Related to the spiritual strength of acceptance (see below) is forgiveness. If someone we care about unintentionally hurts us, we let them know and the odds are good that they will apologize. At that point, we forgive. Forgiveness doesn't mean ignoring a wrongdoing or blindly accepting it; it means that we're all fallible and we don't allow individual mistakes to fracture important relationships.
Well, how about our relationship with ourselves? When we make a mistake that hurts someone--or that hurts us--we own up to that mistake and vow to not repeat it. But then we forgive ourselves. Just as forgiveness preserves our personal relationships during times of conflict, it preserves our relationship with ourselves. We vow to learn from our trading mistakes--and we outline plans to put that learning into practice--and then we forgive ourselves and move forward constructively.
If we can't forgive ourselves, then of course we'll resort to revenge trading and overtrading to undo what we did wrong. Forgiveness does not mean passively accepting falling short; it means that we support ourselves in correcting our inevitable failings.
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12/20/2025 - Yet another spiritual strength that can fuel our trading development is a sense of wonder. Here is an excellent recent article on the topic that cites research linking a sense of awe and wonder to improved health and emotional well-being. Most of us are familiar with experiences of wonder and awe in nature, such as when we survey a magnificent mountain landscape. Perceiving a wonder-full piece of artwork, taking in the sight of a newborn baby, contemplating the stars and our place in the universe--all of these can trigger a sense of awe.
So how does this relate to markets? When we study the stock market, we cannot help but be amazed at the interplay of timeframes, rotation of funds across sectors, and rotation of money across different asset classes--all impacted by news, economic developments, and geopolitical events. Are markets wholly predictable? Absolutely not. Every so often, however, we catch a glimpse of how funds are flowing and how markets are moving and we can benefit from that insight. The experience of grasping something that complex brings a feeling of awe and wonder. It has nothing to do with P/L and it never occurs when we're focused on ourselves and how much money we can make. It also never occurs when we try to reduce markets to simple chart patterns or trading signals. It's when we step back and appreciate how markets move that, like scientists immersed in the complexity of what they're studying, we can find a fresh source of motivation in grasping something truly awe-some.
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12/19/2025 - A second spiritual strength essential to trading success is acceptance. The ability to accept setbacks is essential to learning from them. Indeed, much of what we call "overtrading" and "revenge trading" is the result of the inability to accept prior losses. When we accept a loss or a trading mistake, that doesn't mean that we passively tolerate it. Rather, it means that we own it and, as noted below, accept it as a gift: a learning lesson that can make us better. We can't be grateful for what we learn as noted below unless we first accept it.
But there is a second way in which acceptance is key to our successful trading. We have to be accepting of ourselves. We have strengths. We have weaknesses. We are still learning. That is OK. Ayn Rand once noted that, "A quest for self-respect is proof of its lack". When we accept ourselves, we accept all of ourselves--and we respect our shortcomings as well as our abilities. We cannot trade to achieve self-respect. Our self-respect must guide our trading.
We must become our own gurus and develop our own expertise. The search for gurus who will give us the answers betrays our own lack of self-respect and self-acceptance. When we accept who we are and where we're at, we're ready to learn from that and move ourselves forward.
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12/18/2025 - In these posts I'll outline a few spiritual strengths that manifest themselves as trading strengths. The first of these is gratitude. When we feel grateful for what we have and who we are, we experience overall well-being. We know from the research on positive psychology that the dimensions of well-being contribute significantly to career success, success in relationships, and overall physical health.
But how can we be grateful if we're losing money in markets or if our personal lives are becoming rocky? If we view our setbacks as opportunities to learn and do things differently, then suddenly those negative events become tools for our growth. We can be thankful for challenges that come our way, because those will ultimately make us better.
Similarly, when we're grateful for our successes, we avoid perfectionism and the nagging need to always do more. Indeed, the energy of gratitude helps us build upon our successes and continually improve.
Gratitude shapes our mindset and guides our development.
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12/18/2025 - The life we plan is not always the life that's meant for us.When I wrote the blog book Radical Renewal, I recognized that the needs of the ego were some of the greatest obstacles to successful trading. The really great ideas and trades came from letting go of our needs and learning to listen from deep within. As I mentioned in the conclusion to the book: "Not so long ago, the phrase 'trading spirituality' would have been viewed as an oxymoron. Among the traders I work with, there is growing recognition that how we lead our lives impacts how we interact with financial markets."
There are precious few places where traders can talk openly about their religious/spiritual development and how that impacts their trading--and their lives. We're all too cautious to bring up what we believe because we don't want to be seen to be preaching to others. So that part of our lives gets left behind. Which leaves us to trade with our egos. Indeed, my desire to not allow my day to day work in life and markets interfere with my spiritual development led me to begin the Integrative Judaism site.
But what if there was a community where participants could share their spiritual experiences as readily as their trading experiences? What if people shared best practices in their unique religious lives and explored how those become best practices throughout life, including trading? What if there was a community of traders from diverse spiritual traditions and backgrounds, where everyone could inspire everyone else?
I have no preconception as to the shape such a community would take, how it would communicate and collaborate, etc. The fun and adventure is to discover together. If you are a trader and would like to explore the intersection of your work in markets and your spiritual/religious work, by all means reach out to me at steenbab at aol dot com and we can explore possibilities. As always, I appreciate your interest and support--
Brett