Coaching ourselves to trading success requires that we know our strengths and our vulnerabilities. All of us have our triggers that are associated with the unresolved conflicts and unmet needs that we bring to trading--and to other areas of life. Not as well recognized is that we also have positive triggers that cue us to activate our strengths. If we don't know our positive triggers, we can't establish processes that cue our success and benefit from them. If we can't anticipate our negative triggers, we can't intercept them before they do harm to our trading accounts.The most important skill in trading psychology is self awareness. If we are not mindfully self-aware, we operate on autopilot, miss opportunities to put our strengths to work, and expose ourselves to emotional triggers that can hurt us. If we know our triggers and can actually anticipate them, we gain significant control over our trading.
A common positive trigger is feeling in the flow of our trading, absorbed and operating in the zone. That state of heightened focus is one that sets off our intuitive pattern recognition, allowing us to see opportunities unfolding in real time.
A common negative trigger is frustration. When we undergo a loss and become angry and frustrated, the resulting fight/flight response leads us to trade reactively. In that state, we cannot possibly see actual opportunity unfolding.
Taking periodic breaks during the trading day and assessing our degree of focus and frustration builds our skills at self awareness. When we become increasingly able to identify our states in real time, we gain the option of guiding our trading actions accordingly. If you know you're seeing the ball well, you can take a meaningful swing. If you know you're agitated and not seeing the ball, you can step back, work on your focus, and preserve your capital. That is huge.
At SMB Capital, a mantra is "One Good Trade". Taken after Mike Bellafiore's book of that title, the mantra tells us to just focus on the next trade and what will make it a good one. Notice how this is actually an exercise in self-awareness. If we don't know what goes into a good trade--and what we need to avoid to prevent a trade from going bad--we can't recover from a loss (or build upon a gain) by making "one good trade".
Good traders know the market. Great traders also know themselves.
Market awareness + self awareness = consistent profitability.
Further Reading:
Strategies for Building Self Awareness
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