
9/2/2025 - The opposite of living our ideals is living randomly, without intention. The self-change process described below is actually a formula for living life intentionally by growing our free will. The central skill demanded by trading is free will: the ability to not be swayed by random thoughts, feelings, and impulses and to take risk in planned, conscious ways. Trading, properly pursued, is the pursuit of free will and the development of our capacity to overcome reactivity and act upon our goals and ideals.
When we understand this, then everything we pursue consciously strengthens our ability to trade, because it strengthens our freedom of will. Pursuing goals and ideals in our relationship lives, in our physical development, in our work--all make us more self-directed people. A trading journal, from this vantage point, is a game plan for growing our free will and becoming more consciously self-directed as traders.
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9/1/2025 - The positive psychology change process below applies directly to our growth as traders. The idea is to make one process improvement at a time and implement it consistently for 30 consecutive trading days. For example, a trader I worked with was frustrated by taking profits too early, but also by seeing profits reverse if he held onto positions. He defined a trade structuring process where each idea was expressed in two ways: outright and with an options straddle. Implementing this on a small scale every trade for a month helped him refine the strategy, so that his psychology shifted to win-win from lose-lose. Similarly, traders can make small improvements each day in their research processes and in their journaling. When we continually work on improving our craft, we internalize the forward momentum and experience growth even during times of challenging P/L.
What is a best practice that could improve what you do and how you do it, and how can you incorporate that into your trading (and trading reviews) every day? We can't grow our trading if we experience ourselves as stagnant.
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8/31/2025 - Therapy is the application of psychology to understanding and overcoming one's personal problems. The application of psychology to the achievement of our ideals is the essence of positive psychology. What I refer to as positive trading psychology is the application of psychology to the achievement of our trading ideals.But how do we become the people we wish to be?
The key idea is that we achieve our ideals by living our ideals each day. When we do and do and do, we internalize our actions. We don't change ourselves and do great things. We do great things daily and evolve.
Here is a powerful framework for self-change:
Identify one thing that you would like to do each day that represents the person (or trader or spouse or professional) that you would like to become. The one new thing you do should be something very doable, but also something very different from what you've been doing. Perhaps I would like to get in better shape and have more energy. So every day, I will run on the treadmill and keep track of my aerobic capacity. I'll do that for a month and write down my progress each day.
When we do something the same way each day for a month, we turn an effortful behavior into a habit pattern. By the end of the month of daily work on the treadmill and keeping a journal of progress, the aerobic workouts become part of my daily routine. I then add a new desired behavior as my daily activity for the next month; perhaps making a conscious effort to spend quality time with someone I love. Every day, I do something loving and, over time, I become a more loving person.
By the end of a year of such monthly work, we have not only changed in many respects, but we gain confidence in our ability to change. The cumulative impact of living our ideals brings us closer and closer to the happiness and fulfillment we're capable of.
That is true therapy for the mentally well: Each month, find a way to bring our real selves closer to our ideal selves and make that a daily routine. Gradually we shape who we wish to be: in trading, in relationships, in life.
Providing a home for abandoned, neglected, and unwanted cats has been a way I have worked on my own capacity to give for many years. Part of my positive self therapy is creating a website for this work and reinforcing those ideals.
Each day, every day, in the same ways: be a little bit of the person you wish to be.
Character grows from the ground up when we plant the seeds and water each day.
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